A lot of women are wondering, why men change wives to .Situations are different, in one case, the husband remains in the family, in the other - goes to his mistress.
On this page, a selection of popular videos on this issue has been made. The authors of the videos are leading psychologists in the field of family relations, the relationship of the sexes. Consider their advice and recommendations for achieving harmony in family life!
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Why men change wives but do not go
In this video, I want to tell you about, why does a man start to change his wife, but does not leave the family? Why does he start a mistress, but remains in his previous family?
My name is Natalia Vinnichenko-Morozova. I'm a practical psychologist. For 14 years now I have been conducting trainings, seminars, consultations on relationships and women's health. I am an expert on television, the author of trainings and books about women's health and relationships. And also the head and the founder of the school of higher female skill Lady Guide.
What is the reason why husbands change wives, but do not leave the family?
In one of the previous videos, I talked about the fact that a man needs a reliable rear. And the man, more likely, will take to himself a woman who is such a reliable rear. The woman who is ready to sacrifice her own strength, time, energy for the sake of preserving the life, health, and reputation of a man. And taking such a woman as his wife, he understands that if something happens to him, he is also a man, he is not immune from some critical situations, then such a woman will come to his aid.
But, at some point in her life, the spouse stops meeting his needs. Social, sexual needs, needs for ambition, the need for a man to grow his self-esteem. She ceases to praise him or stops asking for gifts, provoking him to invest. And then a man gets a mistress, where he realizes this need, these needs.
But the most important need, the most basic instinct that governs any person is the instinct of self-preservation. And such a spouse who is willing to sacrifice, which is ready to save his reputation, she gives this feeling, gives the feeling that the instinct of self-preservation will be satisfied. And so men do not go to a mistress who can not give him the feeling that at the right moment of life, when it is necessary to save his life, health or reputation, this woman is ready to sacrifice herself.
And in such cases the man will not leave the family in any way.
Why do husbands change wives?
Why do men change wives? With you again in touch Natalia Vinnichenko-Morozova. I have already said that I am a practical psychologist and the author of trainings and books about women's health and relationships.
Today the story of why husbands change wives? Remember such a very good saying: Every man dreams of his mistress in bed, of the hostess in the kitchen and queen on a visit. If the woman does not correspond to any of these parameters, if it so happened that the woman sat down with small children at home and ceased to develop, does not go to the gym, does not develop, does not look after herself, ceased to look good, beautiful and effective, then alas...
The man has such situations when it is very important for him to be proud of his woman, bring her out into the light, show it to everyone. Because, about what next to him a woman is judged by his comrades. About his delivery, about his income, about his success. If a woman has become such that nothing to be proud of, then a man has to make himself a mistress, which he shows a society that can be proud of.
The next reason why men change wives is if a woman does not satisfy a man's sexual needs. If she switches to children, if she forgets about how important and need an orgasm for relationships, because orgasm gives a lot of strength, energy and changes the hormonal background for the better. The processes of self-healing, the processes of renewal and rejuvenation are launched. This is a very, very important point.
If a woman forgets that a man is waiting for a mistress in the bedroom, then the man, again, is forced to make you a mistress in order to satisfy his sexual needs. Continuation about why men change wives, look in my video.
What does a man want from a woman in a relationship?
Tips from the practical psychologist Natalia Vinnichenko-Morozova.
Every person, of course, needs to be believed in, so that they feel that they understand him. Remember how in that movie? Happiness is when you are understood!
And now, if you manage to create such a relationship that you understand, feel what a man needs at a certain moment of life, then you will be able to create a harmonious relationship.
A man has his own specific values. There are common values: For a man this is self-esteem, this is a sense of freedom and the creation of his own image, opinion, authority about him. But there are some other values that relate to each person individually.
When I conduct trainings, seminars on values, someone has the most important value in health. Someone has a harmonious relationship, a feeling that they love you. Someone has material prosperity, someone just has the opportunity to realize themselves in society, in professional activity or be an authority. Each person has his own values, in addition to common values.
For me, for example, the state of health is very important and that people who are close to me share this viewpoint with me, the worldview. So that I do not have conflicts with them, so that we have some common points of contact. For you, something may be different and men also have their own values. More about what a man wants from a woman in a relationship, see this video.
Three reasons why men change
Why do men change women, what kind of fucking polygamy is that? Today I will talk about this in more detail. Finally, the topic is very interesting. Lev Vozhevatov, my name is, I'm a coach for charisma and relationships. In this clip we will talk about infidelities, let's go.
Go straight into the fight, without any workouts. There are several points why men change. I, as a man who coached men for a long time, the men's coach, now a female coach and coach for charisma and relationships, I know everything from inside. I know for myself why I went to other women, and why I wanted to communicate in parallel with another girl, I marked it and wrote it down.
The first point refers to instincts, to male nature. It's nature, what it is, a little digression will be very useful. The basis of the population, the basis of the animal or human species - the goal to survive and multiply, the instinct realizes this program - survival and reproduction. The instinct has no concept of love, feelings, jealousy, etc., there are no feelings, there is a goal - to survive and multiply at any cost.
In order for the next generation of individuals to appear, the women's strategy of mankind is to attract the maximum number of male males, to choose from this steepest, best, strongest, with the steepest genes, to get pregnant so that he gives his gene to a strong man, not only physically strong,be strong in society and so on, there is already a separate story.
And then strong strong children will be born from this strong male. A female human female can not give birth to 20 children, 50, 100, as ants or mosquitoes breed, and on the average 3-4 children, 5-7 children, no more. Therefore, when a woman connects herself with a rogue, a chumacher, a loser, it turns out a mistake, that is, a man of poor quality, bad, his gene is bad, the price of a mistake is a year, health and everything else.
Why do husbands go to their mistresses?
Famous writer Daria Dontsova tells SOVET.TV about the main reasons for the change and how to preserve love and understanding in the family.
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Why do men get lovers?
Alena Kosterina's questions in the "Useful evening" program are answered by Elena Kosheleva, a life coach, a relationship expert, a psychotherapist, a female trainer.
Why a husband loses interest in his wife and that kills a man in love for a woman
Why a man loses interest in a woman and that kills her husband's love for his wife - this you will learn today from viewing this video.
9 wise advice to a woman how to give advice to a man
Men and women are very different, so they have to communicate with each other according to certain rules, rules that take into account their characteristics. A man just does not perceive things if you communicate with him. The worst that can be, in general in life: if you think that a man and a woman are equal, the same and communicate with her husband is just like with a friend.
Understanding that a man and a woman are different, the first advice is this. If a woman wants a man to understand what she says, since she understands this, that he absorbs everything as a "sponge", it is very dangerous. Such communication is perceived by a man as a battle with him. If a woman wants to convey some of her thoughts, several points must be observed. It is necessary to ask leading questions, an intelligent woman can achieve her just asking questions, there should not be too many of them.
Second advice. If you ask leading questions, listen to the answers. Sometimes a woman, when she heard that you have to ask leading questions, ask them, but do not hear the answers. The meaning of these rules is to try to remove acute angles, realizing that men are basically fighters by their nature and fight all the time. If a man sees that someone is challenging him, he starts to fight.
The third advice - never talk to a man with any statements, statements, talk about your understanding, about how you feel. Do not say "as it is", "it will be so", "it must be so", etc. When a woman says what she feels, a man can burst with hatred, but this is an insurmountable barrier, he can never say: "do not feel this way. "
Fourth wise advice to a woman. In dealing with a man, do not try to outdo a man, because you can surpass him. And nothing good for you it will not end. If you surpass him, he will remain there. Especially it concerns man's things.
For the rest, see later in this video.
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